There is a trap that we are constantly being pushed to fall into.
That trap that eats up our time unnecessarily and that, if we get caught, inevitably leads us to depression.
I call it the "false target" and it is probably the most miserable trap of the modern world.
~ It has been known since ancient times, but democracy has sublimated it to such an extent that today it has become commonplace to fall into it.
Let me explain the matter to you in theoretical terms, after which we will move on to the practical part.
Take the world in which you live, your immediate proximity and the extended one.
You have several types of people there: some poor, some rich. Some do better, some do worse.
Independent of their material status, some are happier, others are mizerable.
Or some are downright crazy.
Look carefully at what I call the "immediate world".
That is the real world, where you spend 99% of your time.
You only leave it as a passenger (vacation, short-term trips, etc.).
But even when you leave it, you still stay in it because you are connected.
Only radical decisions - like I move to another town or country - make you leave it and enter another immediate reality, with largely the same characteristics.
Practically your entire life takes place in that reality, in your corner of the world.
There you have everything: achievement, defeat, temptation, success, etc.
You can clearly see that the same forces, the same laws, the same influences act on your corner of the world.
However, for some it is better, for others it is worse.
And so the question arises: why is it worse for me than for the other?
Then comes the frustration: that one is stupider than me, more unpolished, more rudimentary, and yet he is doing better.
Well?
I don't think there's a person who hasn't been bothered by this question. In fact, it's downright frustrating for the vast majority of people.
That's it, let's sit down and analyze it at leisure.
Who's to blame?
Limiting your horizon to the level of your world, you can clearly find the answer.
In this case, there's no need to wait until the end of the day.
And it's terribly hard for us to admit that, in the end, the blame for what concerns us belongs entirely to us. Otherwise, how is it that some people are happier than you, practically in the same conditions?
And right here, at this neuralgic point, comes the deception.
The mechanism is a banal one.
Your psyche is the one that plays tricks on you.
It seeks to protect you by trying to find an external culprit.
In this way, you can enjoy yourselves with your loved ones.
In this case, you don't go to the neighbours to hold them accountable for the fact that you ran out of money.
You would be embarrassing, you would be laughed at.
And your unconscious knows this.
Reason for which it seeks an inaccessible enemy, one who cannot fight back.
And here is where the so-called democratic society sets the biggest trap in history: the official culprit, in the form of the politician, the president, the prime minister, etc.
Who is to blame for you running out of money?
This is the most important thing that happens in Parliament.
And just like that, you spend your time cursing that person instead of trying to solve your problem.
Which problem is related to your immediate circle, to the way you secure your resources, to your world and not at all to the world that you falsely look at, expecting it to solve your problems.
Let's be clear.
I do not want to absolve politicians of any guilt. They are more guilty than you can immagine, of just about everything.
At the same time, you can enjoy it, is their fault for anyhting that happens bad to you.
And yes bad things come down the pipeline.
Well, not from them, but from the system as a whole.
There is no problem taking care of the problem.
In this certainty that a lousy animal like your prime minster or prezident is 100% to blame for the generalized increase in prices, certainly that a nut case like your King or Prezident has nowhere to take us but into the abyss, narrows the story you need to think about, at fault is another dude.
As long as there are happy people in the vicinity, it means that those people have managed to find the antidote to the "evil radiation" coming from above and which acts the same on all beings equally.
So the question you need to think about is how come others have found a solution, while you haven't.
Our society is perverse precisely because it helps you easily find an intangible enemy to blame.
Although this solves your momentary frustration, it doesn't heal your pain.
Moreover, by masking it, it makes it grow in intensity and become chronic.
Until when? Well, until you go crazy.
You become paralyzed, you have the impression that every step is forbidden to you by the "great enemy".
The worst thing is, individuals who are downright insignificant in your reality end up blocking you oin your footstep, and they don't even know it.
How comes?
Because your mind plays tricks on you: in order to protect yourself, it encourages you to find the fault elsewhere, as far away from you as possible, as inaccessible as possible, so that you are content with the thought that "there is nothing I can do anyway".
Gradually, such distortions become bigger and bigger.
And, in parallel, your life is destroyed.
You have vain hopes that the next person who comes will solve your problem.
But it doesn't happen because such a thing is impossible.
And you curse them for "betraying you".
You do this forgetting that the problems you have are related to your immediate reality, not to an abstract politician who is put there anyway to play a role, to channel people's despair and frustrations.
The perverse side of current society lays right here, in the way it offers you such "refugees" on a platter.
And it does it because the system's functioning is fueled by the degree of frustration in society.
The morbidity of society as a whole is a guarantee that the artisans of the system preserve their power.
It is the small element that is not written anywhere.
As long as you relate to the "instruments of blasphemy" that society cheerfully provides you with, you have no other direction than one of failure and of transforming yourself into a tool of the system.
However, if you have the strength to confront your weaknesses, to understand what keeps you in chains and to overcome the comfort given by identifying the "external enemy" responsible for your failures, only from that moment do you begin to live.
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