To
answer the first question, nothing.
I grew up surrounded by grief, and
by joy in alternative stages, lost my gramma when I was 7, but had my 2
brothers and other kids to play with, so it compensated the balance, my
parents divorced by the time I was 10, by the same time we had our
smallest brother brought home and I kindda' kept busy with him for the
coming 3 years and this rebalanced the things again.
As I grew older
uncles and aunts started to die, but I was young and kept myself busy,
once I passed 20 some friends started to die (I had some old friends,
but also some young that had accidents) but I was working full time and
studying night-school, and that kept me afloat.
When my father in law
died, two years after that also my father, another 3 years later my
mother in law, I was always keeping busy with my son, my work, my wife,
some relatives and friends.
Grief is not something to be accounted for
as unusual in life, is part of day to day living, and those that try to
take it out of the context, to exacerbate it and make an issue of it
are either people that all their lives were over protected thus never
had to deal with, or mentally instable aiming for drama at any cost, or
professional shrinks making their money out of this market, thus
exaggerating anything to make an extra buck.
The
above somehow answers your other question, never needed it, not a drama
queen myself, plus help and support always came unsolicited and
unconditioned, just as I was giving it when times required around. That
means living in a healthy society and being sane, give help when and how
it is needed, and accept when people wanna help you even if you have no
idea who they are.
It is the natural way of dealing
with life, grieving included, any other way it means looking to make
money out of other peoples misery, sort for the Grinch.
Money talks,
those folks are vulnerable since grieving right now, let's rip them off.
I hate that.
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- Building robotics, drawing inventions, writing books, talking to people, triyng to build my empire on the ashes of the one that's burning down nowdays with all these "wars to terrorism" in which state terorism fights itself under the mask of "illegal terrorism", What a Nonsense the politics.